{"id":5433,"date":"2025-10-06T07:26:24","date_gmt":"2025-10-06T11:26:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/?p=5433"},"modified":"2025-10-06T07:26:27","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T11:26:27","slug":"leadership-is-contagious-heres-how-to-spread-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2025\/10\/06\/leadership-is-contagious-heres-how-to-spread-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Leadership Is Contagious. Here\u2019s How to Spread It."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We often talk about leadership as if it\u2019s a role, something that begins when you\u2019re promoted or when your title changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the truth is,&nbsp;<strong>leadership is a collective capacity, not a position.<\/strong>&nbsp;It\u2019s something we build together, moment by moment, through how we show up, communicate, and make decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This month, I\u2019d like to explore a few simple ways to&nbsp;<strong>practice leadership wherever you are<\/strong>, drawn from the conversations I\u2019ve had with inspiring guests on&nbsp;<em>Le Podcast on Emerging Leadership<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Lead by Clarity and Care<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In my discussion with&nbsp;<strong>Russ Laraway<\/strong>, author of&nbsp;<em>When They Win, You Win<\/em>, we talked about how great leadership is measurable. It shows up in clear direction, thoughtful coaching, and meaningful career conversations.<br>Russ\u2019s advice was simple:&nbsp;<strong>set clear expectations, offer real feedback, and invest in people\u2019s growth.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Try this:<\/strong>&nbsp;Pick one person this week and ask,&nbsp;<em>\u201cWhat\u2019s one thing I could do to better support your success?\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;Then act on what you hear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Build Trust by Talking About How You Talk<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>With&nbsp;<strong>Jeffrey Fredrick<\/strong>, co-author of&nbsp;<em>Agile Conversations<\/em>&nbsp;with&nbsp;<strong>Douglas Squirrel<\/strong>, we explored the idea that every problem in an organization is ultimately a conversation problem.<br>Jeffrey shared that high-trust teams don\u2019t just talk about&nbsp;<em>what<\/em>&nbsp;they\u2019re doing; they talk about&nbsp;<em>how<\/em>&nbsp;they talk. They examine their assumptions, make their reasoning visible, and invite challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Try this:<\/strong>&nbsp;In your next meeting, pause to ask,&nbsp;<em>\u201cWhat assumptions might we be making here?\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;or&nbsp;<em>\u201cIs there something we\u2019re not saying?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might be surprised how quickly this opens up honesty and alignment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Empower the People Closest to the Work<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In my conversation with&nbsp;<strong>Maria Bracho<\/strong>, CTO for LATAM at Red Hat, she shared that the most effective leaders are those who trust their teams to make decisions.<br>Her insight was clear:&nbsp;<em>People closer to the work usually know best what needs to happen.<\/em>&nbsp;The leader\u2019s role is to create the conditions for them to act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Try this:<\/strong>&nbsp;Instead of giving solutions, ask:&nbsp;<em>\u201cWhat do you think we should do?\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;Then, genuinely listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Empowerment is not a slogan; it\u2019s a daily choice to let others lead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. Make Change Feel Possible, One Step at a Time<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When I spoke with&nbsp;<strong>Tamar Bergovici<\/strong>, VP of Engineering at Box, she described how real transformation doesn\u2019t come from big speeches, it comes from small, consistent actions that build trust and momentum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Try this:<\/strong>&nbsp;Choose one thing your team has been struggling with. Instead of planning a massive fix, take one visible step forward this week. Then, celebrate it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sustainable change isn\u2019t imposed, it\u2019s co-created.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Leadership Experiment for This Month<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s a simple exercise to try over the next two weeks:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Pick one area where you want to see leadership emerge. I<\/strong>t could be clarity, trust, empowerment, or change.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Name one small behavior<\/strong>\u00a0that would make a difference.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Invite others in<\/strong>: tell your team what you\u2019re trying and ask them to join you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Reflect<\/strong>: What shifted in you? What shifted in others?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Leadership grows when it\u2019s shared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Keep Exploring<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If these ideas resonate, listen (or re-listen) to these episodes of&nbsp;<em>Le Podcast on Emerging Leadership<\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u200b<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2024\/07\/27\/redefining-leadership-a-conversation-with-russ-laraway\/\">Russ Laraway \u2013 Redefining Leadership<\/a><\/strong>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2024\/06\/30\/exploring-agile-conversations-with-jeffrey-fredrick\/\">\u200b<strong>Jeffrey Fredrick \u2013 Agile Conversations<\/strong><\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u200b<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2024\/06\/09\/exploring-leadership-and-open-source-with-maria-bracho\/\">Maria Bracho \u2013 Leadership and Open Source<\/a><\/strong>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2024\/05\/03\/engineering-leadership-at-scale-navigating-complexity-and-change-with-tamar-bercovici\/\">\u200b<strong>Tamar Bergovici \u2013 Leading Change with Empathy<\/strong><\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Leadership isn\u2019t about having the answers\u2014it\u2019s about creating the space where better answers can emerge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can listen wherever you already get your podcasts. Just pick your favorite platform and hit \u201csubscribe\u201d so you won\u2019t miss any new episodes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u200b<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/le-podcast\/id1530971309\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Apple Podcasts<\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u200b<a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/20zeQkRIKW9bJs0vXFcmN8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spotify<\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u200b<a href=\"https:\/\/castbox.fm\/channel\/Le-Podcast-id3584663?country=us\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Castbox<\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u200b<a href=\"https:\/\/preview.convertkit-mail2.com\/click\/dpheh0hzhm\/aHR0cHM6Ly9tdXNpYy5hbWF6b24uZnIvcG9kY2FzdHMvYWQ5MDkyODItODNlYS00ODcxLWFiMzQtY2NkYjBkN2I1YzRhL2xlLXBvZGNhc3Qtb24tZW1lcmdpbmctbGVhZGVyc2hpcA==\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.fr\/podcasts\/ad909282-83ea-4871-ab34-ccdb0d7b5c4a\/le-podcast-on-emerging-leadership\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Music<\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u200b<a href=\"https:\/\/preview.convertkit-mail2.com\/click\/dpheh0hzhm\/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9hZWE3MGY0L3BvZGNhc3QvcnNz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">RSS\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/s\/aea70f4\/podcast\/rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Feed<\/a>\u200b<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And if your favorite platform isn\u2019t on the list, just let me know, I\u2019ll be glad to add it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019d love for you to join me there! See you in your earbuds!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Before closing, a quick update! This month, I\u2019ll be in Vienna, delivering the opening keynote at a private client event, while Isabel will deliver the opening keynote for Agile Tour Bordeaux. These talks mark the beginning of a new season, with fresh insights drawn from our upcoming book, set for release next year. If you\u2019re organizing a public or private event and would like us to bring these ideas to your audience, we\u2019d be delighted to join you.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We often talk about leadership as if it\u2019s a role, something that begins when you\u2019re promoted or when your title changes. But the truth is,&nbsp;leadership is a collective capacity, not a position.&nbsp;It\u2019s something we build together, moment by moment, through how we show up, communicate, and make decisions. 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