{"id":5386,"date":"2025-02-21T11:55:44","date_gmt":"2025-02-21T16:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/?p=5386"},"modified":"2025-07-21T12:03:03","modified_gmt":"2025-07-21T16:03:03","slug":"the-leadership-power-of-recognition-are-you-using-it-effectively","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2025\/02\/21\/the-leadership-power-of-recognition-are-you-using-it-effectively\/","title":{"rendered":"The Leadership Power of Recognition: Are You Using It Effectively?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

This month, I want to explore a fundamental yet often overlooked aspect of leadership: recognition and its impact on motivation and team dynamics<\/strong>. Inspired by Eric Berne\u2019s Transactional Analysis<\/strong>, the concept of recognition strokes<\/strong> helps us understand how the way we acknowledge or critique others influences engagement, trust, and leadership development.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The Four Types of Recognition Strokes<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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  1. Positive & Unconditional<\/strong> \u2013 Appreciation for the person as they are.
    \u200bExample: \u201cI appreciate you.\u201d \u201cI enjoy working with you.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Positive & Conditional<\/strong> \u2013 Praise for a specific action or achievement.
    \u200bExample: \u201cGreat job on this project!\u201d \u201cI admire how you handled that challenge.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Negative & Conditional<\/strong> \u2013 Constructive feedback directed at an action, not the individual.
    \u200bExample: \u201cThis approach didn\u2019t work, let\u2019s find a better one.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t appreciate how you handled that meeting.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Negative & Unconditional<\/strong> \u2013 Criticism aimed at the person rather than their behavior.
    \u200bExample: \u201cYou\u2019re difficult to work with.\u201d \u201cYou never do things right.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    How we recognize and challenge others matters<\/strong>. A culture where positive, constructive recognition is the norm<\/strong> fosters engagement and creates a safe space for leadership to emerge at all levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Redefining Leadership \u2013 A Conversation with Russ Laraway<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    I enjoyed welcoming Russ Laraway<\/strong> on Le Podcast on Emerging Leadership.<\/em> Russ is a distinguished leader with 30 years of experience at Google, Twitter, and Candor Inc. Russ shares key insights from his book, When They Win, You Win<\/em>, offering a fresh, results-driven perspective on leadership and career development.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Key Learnings from Russ Laraway:<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    ✅ Leadership Behaviors Drive Success<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    • Focus on a small set of measurable leadership behaviors that predict engagement and performance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

      ✅ The Three Buckets of Leadership:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      • Direction:<\/strong> Clear goals and expectations.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      • Coaching:<\/strong> Ongoing support and feedback.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      • Career:<\/strong> Meaningful conversations that align personal and professional growth.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

        ✅ The Career Conversations Framework:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        • Life Story Conversation:<\/strong> Uncovering values and pivotal experiences.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        • Career Vision Statement:<\/strong> Helping employees articulate their dream job.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        • Career Action Plan:<\/strong> A structured roadmap to achieve career goals.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

          ✅ Retention and Work-Life Balance<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          • Employees stay where they feel valued. Investing in their careers fosters trust and reduces turnover.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
          • Prioritization is key\u2014subtracting non-essential work creates a sustainable work-life balance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

            Leaders who actively shape career paths and acknowledge growth<\/strong> create organizations where people thrive, innovate, and stay engaged<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            What This Means for You as a Leader<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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            • Are you intentional about how<\/strong> you recognize and challenge your team?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
            • How can you integrate career conversations<\/strong> into your leadership approach?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
            • What shifts could you make to lead through recognition and conscious development<\/strong>?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

              Let\u2019s continue this conversation\u2014share your thoughts and experiences, and let\u2019s work towards building leadership environments where people feel seen, valued, and empowered to grow<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

              This month, I want to explore a fundamental yet often overlooked aspect of leadership: recognition and its impact on motivation and team dynamics. Inspired by Eric Berne\u2019s Transactional Analysis, the concept of recognition strokes helps us understand how the way we acknowledge or critique others influences engagement, trust, and leadership development. 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