{"id":4894,"date":"2020-04-06T09:30:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T09:30:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iamincharge.club\/?p=216"},"modified":"2020-04-06T09:30:07","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T09:30:07","slug":"confinement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2020\/04\/06\/confinement\/","title":{"rendered":"Confinement"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-background has-secondary-color has-background-background-color\"><em>Editor\u2019s note: This article is written from the perspective of a fictional character, Sandrine, the protagonist of I am a Software Engineer and I am in Charge. You can learn more about the book at <a href=\"https:\/\/iamincharge.club\">https:\/\/iamincharge.club<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine sighs as she starts her third week in confinement. The ability to work from home was one of the things she always wanted to have. But, all of a sudden, the invaluable perk has become a burden to carry every day. Isolation starts to take its toll.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine feels that she is stressed because of the crisis. Knowing it is normal to feel this way doesn\u2019t seem to help much as some of her friends already lost their jobs at the beginning of the crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine is glad that her company made the pledge to keep all the workers with full pay. The pledge is one of the reasons she wants to stay productive and keep the company in business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Contradictory information is coming in from everywhere. It is hard not to feel overwhelmed in all that polarized noise. Sandrine would like to shield herself from negative distraction yet at the same time, in a strange way, scrolling through the infinite social feeds gives her a sense that she is still connected with the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*Bing*<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine receives a DM notification on her instant messaging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/dm1-e1586165046695.png?ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-217\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s her friend, Mary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine responds and the two have a short conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/iamincharge.club\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/dm2-929x1024.png?resize=500%2C551&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-218\" width=\"500\" height=\"551\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine sips from her glass of water.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/iamincharge.club\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/dm3-821x1024.png?resize=500%2C623&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-219\" width=\"500\" height=\"623\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A calendar notification pops up on Sandrine\u2019s computer. It\u2019s a reminder that her manager, Gaspar, has invited her to an afternoon virtual hot chocolate with her team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/iamincharge.club\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/dm4-920x1024.png?resize=500%2C556&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-220\" width=\"500\" height=\"556\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine thinks for a moment before replying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/iamincharge.club\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/dm5-905x1024.png?resize=500%2C566&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-221\" width=\"500\" height=\"566\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Are you feeling like Sandrine right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mary seems to have found some momentum by becoming more active on social media and checking in on people. She\u2019s even managed to pick up a great idea on virtual mocktails from Sandrine because of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And maybe she\u2019s right. Maybe Sandrine could view her meeting from a different perspective. Maybe by thinking about how she could support her colleagues, she will see some actions she can take that don\u2019t exist when she views the situation from the perspective of how she feels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How about you? Where could you change your perspective to find some momentum in your world right now?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read <a href=\"https:\/\/iamincharge.club\/2020\/05\/14\/what-happened-next\/\">what happened next<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Software-Engineer-Charge-increase-satisfaction-ebook\/dp\/B08615G9KD\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"532\" width=\"1024\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Am-In-Charge-Available-1024x532.png?resize=1024%2C532&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-256\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This article is written from the perspective of a fictional character, Sandrine, the protagonist of I am a Software Engineer and I am in Charge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[974],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-i-am-in-charge"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paNjQG-1gW","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":262,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2020\/05\/14\/what-happened-next\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":0},"title":"What happened next?","author":"Alexis","date":"May 14, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"This article is written from the perspective of a fictional character, Sandrine, the protagonist of I am a Software Engineer and I am in Charge.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;I am in Charge&quot;","block_context":{"text":"I am in Charge","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/i-am-in-charge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":415,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2023\/09\/11\/unlock-the-power-of-nonviolent-communication\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":1},"title":"Unlock the Power of Nonviolent Communication","author":"Alexis","date":"September 11, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"In a world where misunderstandings can escalate quickly, mastering the art of Nonviolent Communication can be a game-changer. Created by Marshall Rosenberg, this practice is all about fostering compassion, empathy, and genuine understanding in our interactions. How it works: Observation: Reflect on what happened without judgment. Feelings: Express genuine emotions\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;I am in Charge&quot;","block_context":{"text":"I am in Charge","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/i-am-in-charge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/09\/noun-slap-3240065-2696D8.png?fit=512%2C512&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":400,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2023\/08\/28\/discover-the-power-of-the-five-minute-journal\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":2},"title":"Discover the Power of the Five Minute Journal!","author":"Alexis","date":"August 28, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"In our fast-paced world, taking a few moments to reflect can make a world of difference. Introducing the Five Minute Journal, a transformative practice that can elevate your daily life. Why it's a game-changer:\ud83c\udf1f Increases happiness\ud83c\udf1f Strengthens relationships\ud83c\udf1f Boosts optimism How it works:\ud83c\udf1e Morning Routine: List three things you're grateful\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;I am in Charge&quot;","block_context":{"text":"I am in Charge","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/i-am-in-charge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/08\/noun-journal-149974-2696D8.png?fit=512%2C512&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":234,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2020\/04\/16\/the-first-review\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":3},"title":"The First Review","author":"Alexis","date":"April 16, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Julien Danjou is a Staff Engineer at Datadog, where he\u2019s in charge of building a production profiler for Python. The post relates the story leading to his review of the book.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;I am in Charge&quot;","block_context":{"text":"I am in Charge","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/i-am-in-charge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":5509,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2026\/01\/18\/team-agreements-why-now-is-the-perfect-time\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":4},"title":"Team Agreements: Why Now is the Perfect Time","author":"Alexis","date":"January 18, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Something curious happened last week. Three different people, from entirely different professional contexts, asked me the same question:\u00a0\u201cHow do we actually create effective team agreements?\u201d It wasn\u2019t just the synchronicity that struck me; it was the timing. It\u2019s the start of the year, a season where we naturally audit what\u2019s\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;General&quot;","block_context":{"text":"General","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/all\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/01\/getty-images-Fj6U_5z6b7M-unsplash.jpg?fit=1200%2C801&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/01\/getty-images-Fj6U_5z6b7M-unsplash.jpg?fit=1200%2C801&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/01\/getty-images-Fj6U_5z6b7M-unsplash.jpg?fit=1200%2C801&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/01\/getty-images-Fj6U_5z6b7M-unsplash.jpg?fit=1200%2C801&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/01\/getty-images-Fj6U_5z6b7M-unsplash.jpg?fit=1200%2C801&ssl=1&resize=1050%2C600 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":4706,"url":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/2020\/04\/23\/woop-woop\/","url_meta":{"origin":4894,"position":5},"title":"Woop, woop!","author":"Alexis","date":"April 23, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Pre-order on Amazon for I am a Software Engineer and I am in Charge is now open!","rel":"","context":"In &quot;I am in Charge&quot;","block_context":{"text":"I am in Charge","link":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/category\/i-am-in-charge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/i-am-in-charge-persp-1024x768.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/i-am-in-charge-persp-1024x768.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/i-am-in-charge-persp-1024x768.png?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/emergingleadership.network\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/i-am-in-charge-persp-1024x768.png?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]}],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4894\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}