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And remember, rewiring the brain takes repetition, so focus on changing one automatic reaction at a time. &#x1f4a1;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/books\/i-am-in-charge\/the-experiments\/be-impeccable-with-your-words\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"363\">Here it is: Be Impeccable with Your Words!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For more practices like this, check out our <a href=\"https:\/\/blog-alexis.monville.com\/en\/books\/i-am-in-charge\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"100\">book<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s take charge of our words and actions together! &#x1f680;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever noticed how your words can shape your actions and influence others? &#x1f914; In our book, &#8220;I am a Software Engineer and I am in Charge&#8221;, we delve into this concept with our first practice: Be Impeccable with Your Words. 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